Doctors Don’t Die Like the Rest of Us

Interesting article on how doctors make very different choices from the rest of us when it comes to death:

It’s not a frequent topic of discussion, but doctors die, too. And they don’t die like the rest of us. What’s unusual about them is not how much treatment they get compared to most Americans, but how little. For all the time they spend fending off the deaths of others, they tend to be fairly serene when faced with death themselves. They know exactly what is going to happen, they know the choices, and they generally have access to any sort of medical care they could want. But they go gently.

Of course, doctors don’t want to die; they want to live. But they know enough about modern medicine to know its limits. And they know enough about death to know what all people fear most: dying in pain, and dying alone. They’ve talked about this with their families. They want to be sure, when the time comes, that no heroic measures will happen—that they will never experience, during their last moments on earth, someone breaking their ribs in an attempt to resuscitate them with CPR (that’s what happens if CPR is done right).

I for one am in complete agreement with the idea of going quietly as chosen by the author.

Doing the things you want, being surrounded by loved ones, now that’s the way to go!


Ethical Work

Funny how when one thinks of work these days it’s not often that you find a lot of ethics in it.

In fact to some (myself included) its difficult to consider the two together. Like who hasn’t thought that to be a successful business man one has to grease a few hands? Or that in order to win a million dollar contract one should use dirty tactics?

On a more related note I’m surprised how, while on the job, a lot of my work involves making sure that if others start pointing fingers at me I’m protected by a well documented path of approvals and emails signed off by clients or showing that I had done the right thing in the first place.

In less flattering language it’s known as protecting ones ass. And I absolutely hate it.

I hate it because it increases the amount of work that I have to do. I hate it because it takes up time that could be otherwise used more constructively elsewhere. I hate it lastly because in this day and age you can’t work with others without doing it.

Because even if you are an honest person who treats everyone morally the next person you deal with may not treat you in the same way. And the thing that holds up better in a court of law is (sadly) the black and white.

You might think that they guy you’re working with is on your side or even a friend but when a mistake is made you’ll know how much of a ‘friend’ he or she is by the difference in tone between what they say and what they write.

No one wants to go down because of the mistakes of another. Nor do I believe there are many who would deliberately cause the downfall of another (perhaps a sad reflection of my own naïveté). But it saddens me that there is little room for loyalty or morals in the working world as the strong trample the weak and exploit the helpless. It’s tragedy at its best if you ask me which is not a good thing at all.

My bosses do have a relatively strong view on ethics, of which I am thankful for. During a recent meeting I was pleased to hear my boss implore the contractor to be honest and open for a change where they been secretive and evasive.

Later she admitted to me that it was the first time she’d done something like that during a meeting. Evidently she’d been pushed to such a point where she was exasperated with the antics that the contractor was using to put on a front but masking all the problems that were going on behind the scenes.

Their story might end tragically but it’s taught me a lot.

Cheating might give you the upper end in some situations, obscuring the truth might also get you through many of life’s challenges and even earn you quite some mulahs along the way. But in the end a lot of these dubious practices do end up with broken people.

Doing things the right way is a painful process, full of exercises in perseverance and patience but ultimately this matters most: you get to sleep peacefully at night.

Nuff said.


Twitter Quitter! (and this time it’s for good)

I’m finally had the epiphany that I’ve been needing for sometime now with regards to Twitter.

As I wrote in my last post I’ve been having lots of fun with Path and how much more personal and enjoyable it’s been to use. Since then I’ve closed three of my twitter accounts and am just biding my time until I close my final one.

This isn’t the first time that I’m quitting Twitter in fact I’ve written a post about it before. Back then my reasons for taking a break from the medium was because I was actually quite addicted to checking my twitter timeline and just couldn’t spare the time. Now the opposite has occurred where I struggle to get  involved, or even care what’s being posted by those I follow (a list that’s constantly dwindling). I still fire off strange and (in my opinion) weirdly wonderful posts occasionally when the mood possesses me but that’s getting less and less often.

Recently what’s left the sourest taste in my mouth has been the spam people following and sending you @mentions just to attract your attention to some shady deal or dodgy link. Twitter needs to sort this out pronto! They also need to pay more attention to the way that the app is designed as I’m personally not finding it a joy to use anymore. Twitter was so much better in Tweetie form I actually remember enjoying it so much more back then.

Twitter as a whole has just lost the appeal that it used to have with me for the reasons stated above and so much more so it just doesn’t suit my needs anymore.

So as they say in France, au revoir!

It’s been fun but since the service cost me nothing to join it cost me even less to quit when it’s time is done. I just hope that the people of Path can figure out to how to keep my hooked on their product.

 


Finding my Path

I’ve been playing around with the Path app a bit this week since I’ve been off from work, and for the most part I like it.

It’s certainly prettier than either the Twitter or Facebook apps and a lot more fun to play around with as well. Uploading thoughts and pictures hasn’t ever been more fun!

I’m dreading to think where this might be heading especially since I’ve pulled out of Facebook not so long ago and now Twitter has started to become a bit too bloated and their direction seems to be changing every few months. I liked Twitter initially, but it’s recently become a lot less fun as a place to share my thoughts. Furthermore it’s weird to put down personal stuff that relate to what i’m doing immediately. Twitter’s become a place for people to share interesting, often creative and humorous, thoughts in 140 characters or less. There’s recently become an unbearable pressure at the back of my mind whenever I post anything there.

“Will it be interesting?” 

“Will anyone like or take notice of what i’ve written” 

Those thoughts tend to surface and crush my littlest ambitions whenever I post anything on my various twitter accounts.

Which leads me to my other problem with Twitter.  I’ve got too many damned accounts! One for every single specific little thing that I want to blog about specifically, all in order to *blush* attract an audience.

Thankfully with Path there’s no such pressure. I feel at ease simply because of two things:

  • I only share thoughts and photos to whomever I choose to as there’s a limit to how many people you can share with. (50 initially, now 150 with the version 2 release)
  • I can actually privatise any thoughts that I don’t want others to see.

Wait… what?

Let me repeat that again. I can actually use this app so that nobody ever has to see any of the content I post up at all. Ever. And that’s actually ok because, sometimes I just want some place to put these thoughts… and if that place happens to have a really cool user interface which creates a really fun and pretty environment for me to post things, well, why not?

They’re calling it a Smart Journal and I think that’s a wonderful idea. It’s so great that it’s starting to take the place of Twitter and Day One (who’s interface I also love so much) and even that notebook that I was using to keep thoughts away while my iPhone was lost.

I might just go on trying it for another week or two and see how things work out. Others seem to like it so it’s comforting to know I’m in good company.

For my longer thoughts Day One will always be the place to go as it’s a place that’s really meant for typing and storing long and random thoughts. Path on the other hand suits the crazy thoughts that a hyperactive mind would like to keep stored somewhere that doesn’t look as bad as a shoebox. And the Path app *phew* it is WAY better than a shoebox. By a mile. Minus the pressure of anyone you don’t want looking at it other than those you choose to.

Brilliant!

 


Say what you mean, mean what you say

I’ve grown quite fond of the blog Life of An Architect. Not only does Bob, the author, give great advice for architects or on design he does so with a great sense of humor. Now if only he wasn’t American I’d rate him higher!

But it’s this recent post of his, which has nothing to do with architecture or design, that has been rolling around the back of my head a lot:

How about ”You can’t have your cake and eat it too”…? Of course you can have your cake and then eat it, the actual phrase is “you can’t eat your cake and have it” … you know, because of that part when you ate it. Again, everybody says it wrong but we all know what it means.

But now that I’ve pointed it out to you,what will you do next time you hear someone say it incorrectly or incompletely? Will you correct them? Will you start saying it correctly now even though when other people hear it your “new” way, it won’t sit quite right in there heads … like somehow you are the one who just said it wrong. Does it even matter that you’ve said it correctly when people know what you mean?

Sadly I haven’t decided what I’ll do next but thanks Bob for making my life that much more awkward!


WordPress vs Tumblr part 2

The debate rages on…

A couple of months ago I posted how I was putting my time with WordPress on hold because the app (back then) just wasn’t up to scratch and instead favoring tumblr as my weapon of choice.

At the time I was impressed by how easily it was to upload links and text from the Tumblr app and the integration with Instapaper allowed me to quickly post articles I’d read. This prompted me to write:

This doesn’t signify my permanent departure from WordPress though. I’m sure the people there are working hard to make WordPress integration into 3rd party apps. It just isn’t there yet.

Though the 3rd party integration hasn’t come about (not to my knowledge) one thing that the people at WordPress have been hard at work is making sure that their app is one of the best apps for mobile blogging. And in many ways I think it now is.

They’ve finally finally included the ability to format your text with shortcut keys for bold, italic, making hyper-links and quotes. Which is pretty darn almost everything I’ve been wishing for since the app was originally released. As you can tell from my initial impressions with the WordPress app, I wasn’t impressed. At all.

This addition, which probably took quite a while to do properly (I’m trying to be understanding here), along with the fact that the app doesn’t crash every 5 seconds leaves me feeling quite satisfied with the experience overall.

The Tumblr app on the other hand has only been getting worse.

Prior to the latest release (version 2) it was easy to get around a lack of formatting keys as it supported markdown. This feature has been stripped from v2.0 and it’s made the app all the more handicapped without it.

What were you guys at tumblr thinking?!

The other thing that I’ve noticed with Tumblr is that it’s always felt amateurish for some reason. Most tumblogs that I’ve seen seem to be quick and thoughtless posts made by attention deficit individuals who don’t create much content, only reblogging what others have reblogged on and on.

This is partially a criticism on myself as well as I’ve also jumped (willingly) onto tumblr with two frequently updated blogs on what I read and architecture/design related posts. I have missed WordPress though as the very format for this blog is about writing and writing a lot. I’ve been far emptier inside from my move away from WordPress hence my eagerness to jump back onto it!

Tumblr is ideal for short posts which are quick and often meaningless. WordPress is more for thoughts and meaningful articles. Both serve their purpose but for me I’m switching back to WordPress for now.

It’s time for me to start thinking instead of just reacting.


Protected: Sick of waiting

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Test post

This is just a test.

And this is just a link

The app doesn’t seem happy as I cant seem to post this test entry!


Happy

I feel happy when I hear people talking and laughing to their children whether in a language I understand or one that I don’t.

Reminds me that we’re not all that different after all.


Where are you?

Bosses aren’t around again and I’m stuck wondering how to close issues that are hanging.

Irony is that I get accused of not closing issues by them. sheesh

This has been happening for quite a while now and it’s gotten to the point where I don’t really care as long as things move along.

gah!


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